tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1482810257064889352024-02-08T04:35:25.060-08:00女生走出來Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger53125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-15371720724620778442011-02-11T06:08:00.000-08:002011-02-11T06:08:00.348-08:00新戰場,新高潮<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 兩人每次翻雲覆雨,重複的動作,重複的程式,重複的地點,是否感覺越來越麻木</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 今天我列出家中最易激發性欲地點的排行,想要保持兩人之間“性”趣盎然,就要好好利用這些地方,小小的創意可能會大大改善你們的關係……</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 戰場一:臥房</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 所有民族文化裡,“臥房”絕對是“做愛地點排行榜”的第一名,但這不保證,臥室裡的“性愛品質”就會及格。三代同堂家庭裡,婆婆偶爾來敲門,關心一下她的“心肝寶貝兒子”,以及小孩的騷擾,都會使夫妻在臥房裡的那件事,有如希區科克的電影情節。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 其實,臥房會是想當然的做愛地點,講求的就是它的隱密性。著因此,你們應該繼續保留臥房這塊“性愛租界”,而且,還要和家人簽訂“不平等條約”,注明你們做愛時,擅闖臥房者“格殺勿論”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這類條約絕不會違背性教育的原則,因為性教育並不是誤導孩子和家人,以為你們不會做愛。關起房門來,你們當然還是會做愛,但做愛的時間、方法、型態、反應和場面,則是絕對的“隱密權”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 如果孩子或其他家庭成員擁有臥房的鑰匙,乾脆換個鎖吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">甚至也可訂制個“辦事中,請勿打擾”的牌志,這樣,你們的用意,就會很清楚了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 戰場二:嘗試浴室創造“魚水之歡”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當有人創造出“魚水之歡”這個用句時,他的建議也許是——最理想的做愛地點,應該是在水裡。以前流行泰國浴時,很多試過的人,大概會認同這種說法。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 其實,很多性愛的高難度姿勢,水裡最容易實現,因為水中的身體,通常都會比在空氣中輕</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">如果你在水裡辦得到,在陸地上當然也行。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 所以,有些屬於“實驗性”的嘗試,或是確定不想因為突發意外,被送進急診室的人,最好先從浴缸裡開始。而且,水不要放得太熱,免得重要部位因充血腫漲而容易受傷。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這樣,要是你仍無法體會“魚水之歡”這句話的含意,真可以稱得上資質愚鈍了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 戰場三:到客廳裡找點刺激的做</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 客廳的好處是“觸類旁通”,尤其喜歡做愛時,兼做點其他事情的人,最好不要錯過客廳這麼好的地點。至少電視新聞報導的時候,一邊看看電視,順便聊聊政經大事,不會影響性能力</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">報導到兇殺案,或是其他容易心情激動的新聞時,則應該休息一下。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當然,如果選擇客廳,多半是在沙發上。幾年前流行過懶骨頭,還真是“軟”了一點</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">和喜歡做懶骨頭的男人的能力問題完全無關</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">。姿勢上的調整首先就會有困難,也不太容易瞄準和使力。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 牛皮沙發硬度還算適合,就是有股味道會影響情緒,拿一床毛毯鋪著,就很理想了。由於地點的限制,多半可能要采坐姿。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 在客廳裡做愛,最怕小孩或家人突然回來,或是朋友來訪、推銷員上門、來收報費的,似乎就專門撿這種時刻上門。所以事先要做好準備,一聽到門鈴響就要有反應,建議衣服不要全裸,採取坐姿或重點局部刺激。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 不過,在一分鐘之內從淫娃蕩婦轉瞬變回道貌岸然的摸樣,對很多夫妻來說都是絕對奇妙刺激的經歷。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">戰場四:廚房裡的他“秀色可餐”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 廚房裡有一張像樣的餐桌,不會在出現激烈動作時,打翻胡椒粉瓶,更要小心那些大小菜刀擺放的位置,那麼,廚房也是個很好的地點。適合的姿勢,多半是妻子仰躺在桌上,丈夫站立,從</span><span lang="EN-US">180</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">度進入。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 選擇廚房當做愛地點,好處是可以和食物直接聯想在一起。如果懂得善用調味料,還可增加性愛的“味道”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 譬如,在乳頭上灑點糖粉,或是淋上乳酪或蜂蜜</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在陽具上塗上橄欖油,絕對滋潤。直接把對方當成“秀色可餐”的對象,舔舔、吸吸一番,“吮指回味樂無窮”,愛做完了也就吃飽了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 但過於刺激香辛的調味料,會引起皮膚的過敏反應,如辣椒、豆瓣醬、蒜頭,嘗試前則需慎重。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 還記得《愛你九周半》裡的冰箱一幕嗎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">光著上半身的米基洛克和剛出浴的金貝辛格,坐在冰冷的廚房地板上調起情來。她閉上眼睛,讓他戲弄地拿出冰箱裡的誘人美食喂她。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 特別是當他拿著一直滲出液體的冰塊,在她的肌膚上滑行,一路水搭搭濕泥泥,性愛滿分。反正冰塊很容易製作,請多多在廚房舉行雙人花式溜冰。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 以前有一部電影“巧克力情人”,把烹調比喻成性愛,可惜最後卻像西班牙海鮮濃湯,所有男男女女都烹煮在一鍋湯裡。無論如何,廚房真是一個啟動性愛聯想的好地方。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 戰場五:你還能想到其它地點嗎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 車子造就頂級品質做愛日本有則汽車廣告以“車座舒適,適合做愛”當號召的,顯然汽車性能的進步,已使車廂內做愛,變成小情侶節省賓館費用的方法。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 有些汽車採用單向玻璃設計,外面的人除了從車身的晃動外,完全不會知道車內的人正在做那件事呢</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">想想當你們驅車到靈山秀水的郊野,心境豁然開朗,兩個拋棄一切煩惱的人深深沉浸在愛欲中,該是頂級品質的做愛吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 在陽臺演繹都市言情劇上陽臺做愛,這是嘗鮮的做法,不過冒險指數比選擇餐廳餐桌下,或是戲院最後一排,還要來得低。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 如果是在白天,邊你儂我儂,邊任憑肌膚透徹的來次日光浴,著實是曼妙無比的事情</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">夜半十分,以萬家燈火為背景做愛,似乎在演著都市言情劇,夠浪漫的吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-72052718379423518372011-02-10T17:59:00.000-08:002011-02-10T17:59:53.595-08:0010 Essentials: Rick Klotz of Warriors of Radness 10 Essentials: GQ.com<a href="http://www.gq.com/style/ten-essentials/201102/rick-klotz-ten-essentials">10 Essentials: Rick Klotz of Warriors of Radness 10 Essentials: GQ.com</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-32543599220290626022011-02-10T10:06:00.000-08:002011-02-10T10:06:00.205-08:00想懷孕,如何不讓精液外流<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"> 有些不孕婦女就診時常常主訴同房後大部分精液都流出,並擔心這是她不孕的原因。其實性交後精液流出是正常現象。精液中包括精子和精漿,精漿是附睾,精囊,前列腺和尿道球腺和旁腺的分泌液組成。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 男子射精後,精液儲存在女性陰道後穹窿,宮頸及其分泌的粘液就象一面屏障,精液中只有健康有活力的精子通過尾部的擺動很快向宮頸方向移動,並借助子宮的收縮和輸卵管的蠕動穿過宮頸粘液,通過宮腔,最後到達受精部位,輸卵管壺腹部,而畸形,活動力低、死精子和精液中的其它成份是不能通過宮頸而進入宮腔的。如前列腺液進入宮腔,它含有的前列腺會刺激子宮收縮而引起腹痛。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 那麼精漿又起什麼作用呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 它是精子從男性生殖道傳送到女性生殖道的運載工具,又是一種緩衝物質,鹼性的精漿可中和陰道液的酸度,因而保護精子不免受損害,精漿還可以為精子提供營養和能量,並還能保持一定的滲透壓,有利於精子的存活。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 正常性生活後,精子很快離開後穹窿的精液池而進入宮頸管,而留在陰道內的精漿在完成它的使命後或溢出陰道或為陰道內的酶系降解。因此,性交後精液外溢是正常現象。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 隨精漿流出的還有畸形,無活力的精子以及性興奮時女性生殖道產生的液體。但是為了保證盡可能多的精子進入宮頸,性交後可抬高臀部,以避免精液過早溢出陰道,影響受孕的機會。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-936317520574311982011-02-10T09:05:00.000-08:002011-02-10T09:05:00.262-08:00做愛三九節奏<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> “九”在性愛古籍中頻繁出現,如談到性愛姿勢時,有“九勢”</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在論及不適合性愛的情況時,有“九殃”之說</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在指導性愛動作時,強調“九淺一深”。而古籍關於性愛節奏,也離不開“九”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 具體說來,性愛開始後,先淺刺女性的陰道口,由一數到九</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">然後往內深入一些,但不要觸底,此時數第二次九</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">最後抵達陰道最深處,靜止一段時間,數第三次九。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 現代醫學指出,在女性陰道裡只有外</span><span lang="EN-US">1/3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">處,才有觸覺神經末梢,對這個部位進行有效刺激,能最大限度地幫助女性獲得性快感。同時,性愛時的抽動應做到均衡、有節奏,這樣才能造成一波又一波的快感。</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-20842603291648902782011-02-10T08:03:00.000-08:002011-02-10T08:03:01.137-08:00避孕大觀園<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">當你興致勃勃地研究印度愛經哪一招哪一式最銷魂之際,別忘了多花點心思確保自己能夠愛得無後顧之憂。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 演算法二:經過記錄六次以上週期所得,以取短週期減</span><span lang="EN-US">20</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">就是危險期的第一天,以最長週期減</span><span lang="EN-US">10</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,就是危險期最後天。如某人的最長月經週期為</span><span lang="EN-US">32</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">天,最短</span><span lang="EN-US">28</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">天,本月月經第</span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">天是</span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">日,那麼危險期第一天則為</span><span lang="EN-US">8</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">日(</span><span lang="EN-US">28—20=8</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">),危險期最後一天是</span><span lang="EN-US">22</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">日(</span><span lang="EN-US">32-10=22</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">)。這種演算法,剩餘的時間也不多。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 事後避孕藥:事後</span><span lang="EN-US">72</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">小時內服用事後避孕藥,成功率約為</span><span lang="EN-US">98</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">%,若是在事後</span><span lang="EN-US">12</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">小時內服用成功率會更高。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 很多女性平時生活很粗心,在性生活的時候也不會考慮到太多的細節,可是卻沒想到這可能會給伴侶帶來莫大的傷害,伴侶會在心理上對感情產生懷疑或者對自己的性能力失去自信。張曉平表示,女士在性愛的時候應該儘量地專注,把注意力完全放在伴侶身上,如果遇到特殊情況,要先和伴侶打個招呼,然後再做動作,這樣彼此就不會產生誤會了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 有些情侶被小動作這個“氣氛殺手”經常光顧,甚至在性愛的激烈階段光顧,這個時候兩個人就要找找原因了,一般這種小動作就不是偶然的,而是性生活中出了小問題,讓其中一方不能完全投入,創造性愛和諧。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 比如一些女人在性愛的同時看別的地方,甚至看電視,就可能是因為男人的表現不好,提不起她的興致。而男人擦一擦汗,把注意力從迷人轉移到自己身上汗水的時候,女人又怎麼可能不像被點燃了引線的炸藥,大發其火呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">當小動作頻繁出現,情侶之間千萬不能相互指責,要反省是否自己有問題。要知道,當完全需要對方的時候,任何小動作都不會出現。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-12472435902727143782011-02-10T06:01:00.000-08:002011-02-10T06:01:00.086-08:00避孕會影響高潮嗎?<div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、宮內避孕器,是放在子宮腔內,作用只是局部的,不影響全身內分泌,也不會影響性欲及性快感</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、口服避孕藥及外用避孕藥,前者是通過抑制排卵,後者是通過殺死精子而達到避孕的目的。婦女服藥後卵子不能排出,但仍然有各種激素排放到血液中,決定性欲及性快感的是各種激素及精神因素。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 因此,服藥不會帶來影響。同時,由於避孕,一些人擔心懷孕的顧慮解除了,性生活反而更加和諧美滿。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-66256963514148948132011-02-09T06:59:00.000-08:002011-02-09T06:59:00.933-08:00十招增加性愛情趣<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 國際知名人際關係和情感問題專家約翰·格雷指出,女人不是天生的性壓抑者,男人也不是天生的性愛高手。在性生活中,雙方都應該努力找到既適合男性又適合女性的“</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">性愛技巧”,營造和諧的親密關係。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、對自己的性快感負責。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 主要是針對妻子而言,妻子有權對自己的性快感提出主動的要求。當精神不好、身體欠佳時,應該婉言謝絕丈夫。在性生活中,要自己為自己找快感,並努力使丈夫明白自己的需求。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 日常生活中,夫妻之間相互關照,彼此瞭解,是加強夫妻感情,融洽情調,增進親密感的最好辦法。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、不斷改變性生活的方式。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 長期用一種方式,容易產生厭倦感。雙方應不斷創新,可以嘗試不同時間、不同環境、不同進行地點、不同姿勢等。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 女性在難以達到性高潮時,不妨試試其他的性生活方式,如自我觸摸刺激、看些帶性內容的書畫等,這樣也許會有所幫助。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這樣,可以增加雙方的性快感。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 如果因一時爭吵、生悶氣及發牢騷等,而在性生活中不配合對方,或暫時中止性生活,都會給今後的性生活帶來隱患。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 如一方有性方面的問題,切不可怕羞而諱疾忌醫,否則會帶來更多的家庭煩惱。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">8</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、不要次次都求完美。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 男子一時性陽痿,女性偶然達不到性高潮,都是正常現象,不必時時掛在心上,以免產生焦慮、緊張等,給以後的性生活帶來負面影響。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 和諧的性環境對性生活的美滿程度有著積極的促進作用。雜亂的居室、噪音的干擾、無隔離的設施等,都會嚴重地影響性生活的品質和數量。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 那麼,裝了後是否就一勞永逸呢?張小姐裝了開始時月經量增多、經期延長,可近來卻沒有例假光臨,去醫院進行</span><span lang="EN-US">X</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">線、超聲檢查卻發現避孕器沒了,並懷了孕。這主要是由於節育器與宮腔大小、形態不相符的緣故,或是此材料的支撐力不夠,加之子宮的收縮運動將它排出了體外。醫生為她再次裝時,改用了更符合宮腔形態或較大型號的節育器,並一再囑咐她:術後需休息</span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">天,</span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">周內不要幹重體力活,</span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">周內禁坐浴、性生活,</span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">個月內在解大便時或月經期,均應注意節育器有無脫落,並在一年內定期隨訪,看看環是否在位。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 性交的姿勢也是性醫學家們研究比較多的課題之一。所謂性交姿勢是指男女雙方在性交時各自的體位。為了受孕而尋找容易受孕的性交體位</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">為了保護胎兒而尋找保護胎兒體位</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">為了減少受孕機會當然要研究不容易受孕的性交體位。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一般說來,受孕體位就是男上女下、平躺仰臥位。因為女方平躺仰臥,雙膝微彎稍分開,這樣可使精液射在宮頸口周圍,當宮頸外口浸泡在精液池中時,給精子進入子宮創造了有利條件。護胎體位原則上是減少或杜絕對孕婦腹部的壓迫,以免導致流產等不良後果。因此,可用側位等。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 什麼是不容易受孕的體位呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">一般認為立位是最不容易受孕的性交體位。因為性生活時女性生殖器官下垂,陰道口開放,性交結束後絕大部分精液隨著陰莖的抽出而流出體外,受孕機會率是極低的。其次是坐位可以減少受孕機會。如果男女雙方能互相配合,堅持採取以上性交姿勢既可以得到性生活的滿足,又可以減少受孕的機會,真是一舉兩得。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 埃馬努埃爾通過超聲波掃描發現,</span><span lang="EN-US">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點是尿道和陰道之間,大拇指指甲蓋般大小的增生組織。每個女性的位置都不一樣。這塊組織可能會分泌一種促進性興奮的化學物質,摩擦它會讓女性獲得高潮。然而,多數女性體內沒有</span><span lang="EN-US">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點。這也印證了格拉芬貝格的主張,即</span><span lang="EN-US">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點不是普遍存在,只有</span><span lang="EN-US">10%—40%</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">的女性有幸擁有它。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 此外,埃馬努埃爾還指出,研究顯示,只有那些擁有</span><span lang="EN-US">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點的女性通過性愛,才能獲得陰道高潮。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 美國新澤西州拉特格斯護理學校名譽教授貝芙麗·惠普爾說,女性不應過多為</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點操心。“性高潮分陰道高潮和陰蒂高潮兩種,每個女性都是獨一無二的,獲得快感的方式也應該因人而異。所有的研究結果只能幫助我們更好地享受性愛,而不是制約或困擾性愛。”</span><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 夫妻的性遊戲對性生活有著重要的意義。首先,它可以增加夫妻的性樂趣,減少婚外性行為的發生率。其次,它可以增進夫妻間的親密感情,為夫妻的性交做好充分的身心準備。它能提高夫妻的性心理感受能力,使夫妻間的性活動從發洩式的性交階段進入到娛樂式的同房。人類應為情而性,而不是為性而性,否則就與動物無區別了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 夫妻雙方可以假裝成兒童,非常“好奇”地查看對方的身體和性器官</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">也可以像嬰兒似地喃喃自語,激發對方的母愛或父愛,丈夫可以像個兒子似地躺在妻子懷裡“任性、使壞和撒野”,撥弄和吮吸妻子的乳頭。對於沒有孩子的妻子來說,丈夫的吮奶使她把對未來孩子的渴望融化為對丈夫的一片柔情,對已有孩子的妻子來說,丈夫嘴唇的溫柔觸摸喚起了她心中過去餵養孩子時的種種快樂的回憶。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 妻子還可以做一些嬌媚的動作,勾起丈夫的性興趣。對此,我國古人總結說,女子一有媚態,則三四分姿色可抵六七分。讓人思之不倦、捨命相從的女人,往往都有一種“媚態”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 夫妻模仿動物嬉戲、打鬧的動作,輪流演給對方看,借此引起對方的哈哈大笑,鬆弛因其他事由而繃緊的神經,保持一種輕鬆愉快幽默的心境。</span><span lang="EN-US">1973 </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">年長沙馬王堆三號漢墓出土的《合陰陽》一書,論述了十種模仿動物嬉戲的性交的動作,並稱之為“十節”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 夫妻雙方赤裸全身,要麼在輕柔浪漫音樂的伴奏下,跳著裸體舞蹈</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">要麼相擁而臥說著情話,相互撫摸身體</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">要麼進行下棋比賽,輸一盤脫一件衣服</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">還可以在柔和的燈光下,準備一些酒菜,邊吃喝邊聊天,聊天的時候別讓眼睛閑著。需要的時候,為她撩撩發梢,幫他抹去唇邊殘留的菜屑。或許這只是一個純談心的夜晚,或許是一夜纏綿。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 傳統的支配性男子氣質將男人在性上塑造為佔有的、支配的、主宰的。按著這一說法,男性在性生活中便沒有必要過分關注女性的感受,只顧自己滿意就行了。對女性的態度,應該是充滿暴力的。而且,既然男性的“性中心”是陰莖,更無需進行與陰莖無關的性愛撫。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 比如,男性為女性口交,便完全與男性的陰莖無關,只會因為刺激女性的陰蒂可以給女性帶來很好的性享受。為女性口交,很大程度是單純為女性“服務”,這同樣可以理解為一種有損支配性男子氣質的表現。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 但是,我們的受訪者卻普遍強調了對女性的性愛撫,強調了讓女性感到快樂在他們的性生活中的重要,特別令我有些吃驚的是,幾乎所有的受訪者都說:他們熱愛為女性口交,為女性口交是他們性生活中的重要內容。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我們的受訪者中只有</span><span lang="EN-US">008</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">明確表示不喜歡為女性口交。</span><span lang="EN-US">008</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">說,他喜歡女伴為他口交,至於為女伴口交,“很久以前因為好奇嘗試過</span><span lang="EN-US">1-2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">次,後來再也不嘗試了。”我問他,這是否因為他認為為女方口交有損男子漢尊嚴,</span><span lang="EN-US">008</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">的回復是:“不是,是因為我覺得髒。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當我問他所謂的髒是不是因為有陰道分泌物的氣味兒才覺得髒,以及是否可以通過認真清洗而不再“髒”時,</span><span lang="EN-US">008</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">說:“不是生理的髒,而是我心理上覺得髒。”這種心理上認為女性“髒”的感覺,我們仍然可以將其理解為支配性男子氣質對“男人高貴、女人低賤”的塑造,在普通男性中具有普遍性。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 除</span><span lang="EN-US">008</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">之外,我們的每一位受訪者均經常對女伴進行口交,他們中大多數的人,甚至明確表示了對口交的熱愛。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 所有喜歡口交的受訪者,均強調口交是“利人利己”的一件事。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 表述中聲稱對女方口交無損自己的尊嚴與男子氣概,並且是互利互惠的事,這是我們受訪者表現出的共同點。這種性生活上不分支配與被支配的關係,是否說明了受訪者具有兩性平等的價值觀呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在我看來,遠沒有這樣簡單。</span><span lang="EN-US">016</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">的表述具有代表性:“我只和太太還有女友互相口交,其他人可以給我口交,</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">不會感覺太太和女友髒。其他人我不會為她們口交,因為覺得她們不乾淨。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我們不難看到,在受訪者為女性口交的行為中,存在著選擇。而這一選擇的結果是,將他們有穩定、愛情關係的女伴從“髒”中篩選出來。可見,“髒”從來就只是心理問題,而不是生理問題。也正是在這一選擇中,我們看到,其潛藏著的,通過將某些女性判定為“髒”而實現的貶損仍然持續著。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我們有理由推論說,性行為上對對方感受的關注,對雙方共同愉悅的追求,僅僅是一種為了獲得更高性享受的策略上的選擇,而並不意味著受訪者內心真的落實了兩性性關係完全平等的理念,更不意味著他在更高的生活與社會層次上實踐了兩性平等。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、更多的性前奏</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 如果他突然迅速地插入使你變得很興奮</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">或許你需要給他他放鬆一下。讓他安靜地平躺</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">同時給他愛撫,和親吻大約</span><span lang="EN-US">30</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">分鐘。他不一定會回報。“如果男人不喜歡這種嘗試,他通常是那種匆匆忙忙性前戲的人,不會有令人滿足的性生活”</span><span lang="EN-US">Howard Ruppel</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">博士說”幸運的是這種嘗試會使這個傢伙改變,一直持續到他已過盛年。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 如果有條件,兩人的口交可以在樓梯上進行</span><span lang="EN-US">:</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">女方用枕頭墊著坐在樓梯上,男伴坐在女方兩個大腿中間的下一層樓梯上,這不但使男方頸和頭更好地活動,也會使女方有更好的視野和更方便從性夥伴的性器官上得到的口唇刺激。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> “想得到令你人難以置信的性高潮,你需要性夥伴更多的配合</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">你們都需要有一種被信任和被關的感覺,”性臨床醫學博士</span><span lang="EN-US">Barbara Keesling</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">講到。為了建立這種美妙的感覺,你可以裸體:背靠著牆坐下,讓你的性伴侶頭靠在你的大腿上,溫柔到用你的雙臂環抱著他。彼此感覺著對方的溫暖,呼吸和心跳。然後變換彼此的位置,重複著上面的動作。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 輔導:其實做愛的快感並不取決於懸掛、捆綁之類千奇百怪的輔助設備,最簡單最傳統的男上女下式至今還是使用得最廣泛最頻繁的體位,它能使雙方面對面直接的交流,但它同時也要求你能夠持續</span><span lang="EN-US">100</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">個以上的俯臥撐,因為這一體位對於胸肌、三角肌以及二頭肌、三頭肌都有較高的要求。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 輔導:你有很多機會可以突然襲擊——在她看電視、接電話…毫無準備的時候。這種由意外導致的興奮會使你們更加瘋狂,每</span><span lang="EN-US">30</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">分鐘消耗的熱量可以高達</span><span lang="EN-US"> 120</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">卡路里,如果出現高潮還可以再加</span><span lang="EN-US">40</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">卡路里——接近馬拉松的程度了。</span> </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 輔導:決定射精強度的關鍵因素之一是恥尾肌,即</span><span lang="EN-US">PC(pubococcygeus)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌肉,它是負責阻止排尿的肌肉。日常只需要在小便中間停下再放鬆數次,通過練習收縮和放鬆便可增強它的力量。當然,更爽的辦法是通過側入式做愛來鍛煉。當她側臥時,從背後進入,並收縮放鬆你的</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌,使她達到高潮,你的</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌越結實,快感就越強烈。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 用強烈、溫柔、而夢幻般的眼神直直地看著他的眼睛,他就會感受到你的電力,融化在你的魅力之下。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當然,在令男人銷魂的同時,你也會由內而外的快樂,享受由你挑起的激情快意。你願意發掘他們的情色遐想,破解男人剛強外表下的性愛密碼嗎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 穿上衣服再做別懷疑,至少穿上一件衣服</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 男人覺得穿衣服的女人,有特殊的狂野、放浪感。衣服柔軟的觸感、不規律地摩擦你的身體,是他們做愛時欣賞的美景。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你的頭髮有特殊的魔力。不妨學著讓他躺下,然後用頭髮輕輕挑逗他的身體,他會覺得自己徜徉在另一個虛擬的性愛樂園。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 美國性教育學者表示,其實寶貝的底部才是男人最敏感的地帶。你只需換一下握法,讓手指朝下逗弄他的敏感地帶,用手心暖暖地包圍住他的寶貝,他將馬上為你失去理智……</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 用你的手指輕輕地撫遍他的全身,找出他的每一處性感帶,再用嘴挑逗那些地帶,這種挑逗遊戲,沒有一個男人能夠抗拒。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 有沒試過在他面前靜靜地一件件脫去自己身上的衣服,無需言語,他的熱情會馬上被你點燃。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一個抓痕、咬痕或是性感的隱密吻痕,讓他睹物思人,隨時想起你那天的身姿……或者,你也可以在他身邊,留下你身上的小東西,比如說一件可愛的小襯褲等,這將讓你整天都佔據他的心思。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 編後:床上懂得略施小計的靈氣級女人比起只會躺著不動的“純情”女人好多了,當然,凡事要把握一個度,不可嚇到人了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-2103446947357695862011-02-08T01:46:00.000-08:002011-02-08T01:46:00.144-08:00讓浪女教你做愛<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 有些女子,配偶是她們最主要的性事教師和指導者</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">另一些女子,通過獨自的反思和試驗成就了她們的性智慧和技巧。她們的經驗是多種多樣的,但卻都一次又一次地導向同一個結論:學會自我接受乃是學會做愛的基石,同時,她們的經驗也道出了一些普遍的原則。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 做愛並不只是技術技巧的掌握</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 案例一:莎露是一位</span><span lang="EN-US">30</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">歲的小提琴手,和凱文結婚時,她才</span><span lang="EN-US">23</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">歲。她覺得別人都會做愛,就是她不會,為了使丈夫滿意,她讀了很多書去學習性交的技術。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 她每天晚上提出二三種不同的性交體位,心想這樣凱文也許會滿意。恰恰相反,凱文覺得什麼地方出了問題。一天晚上便坦率地問道:“你是否喜歡和我做愛</span><span lang="EN-US">?”</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">莎露感到很窘,想了想後也坦率地說:“不,不喜歡。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 凱文問她:“你希望我做些什麼改變來使你滿意呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?”</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">莎露頓然醒悟,問題的關鍵在自己這方面,做愛時只是刻板地按照書中寫的程式去做,而不是按照自己的感覺、欲望去做,所以在整個做愛過程中,自己太緊張、太呆板了,根本沒有享受到那種自然的歡樂。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 性生活的模式並非是單一的</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 案例二:除了夜晚床上那種常規的性生活之外,也可以有種種即興的、非常迷人的性生活。莎露回憶道,有一天她剛剛淋浴之後,用浴巾圍著身子,走進了客廳,凱文正坐在大沙發上看電視。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當時莎露的心情很好,她偎依在凱文的懷裡說著親昵的悄悄話,繼而開玩笑般地逗弄他,結果引來了一場極熱烈的做愛。雖然完全是即興式的,但令人興奮無比。莎露說:“我太高興了,因為我看到自己擁有把他發動起來的魅力。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 事過之後。我曾對這次打破常規的性生活覺得有點不太妥當,但凱文說這樣很好呀,太棒了。這使我對性生活又有了新認識。假如凱文對這次性生活略有微詞的話,我會永遠地把這種多樣化的性生活模式埋葬。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 雖然性教育專家們經常勸告人們不要給自己的性生活戴上這樣那樣的“桎梏”,但是一些偏見仍束縛著不少人。諸如男人一定要在上,過性生活就是要有性交</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">性交一定要有性高潮,否則就是失敗,只有陰道高潮才是真正的性高潮,等等。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 以上這些好像都是“正規”性交的要素似的,違反了便是有什麼毛病了。其實,這些並不是每對配偶每次性交的要素。“性生活”有著更廣泛、更多的內容和模式,蘊含著無限的歡樂,等待著夫妻雙方的探索和發掘。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 後來,他們採取了男方主動,女方被動的方式,她完全忘卻了自己,放心地去盡情享受愛的歡樂。結果雙方都感到很滿意。由此莎露認識到一條新的做愛哲理:做愛並不在於你在做什麼,而是你正感覺到什麼。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">相互妥協也是一種做愛的技巧</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 案例三:安娜是一位</span><span lang="EN-US">26</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">歲的室內裝飾師,她有著一對豐滿迷人的乳房,她自己也覺得乳房部的感覺是那麼敏銳豐富,因此性生活中特別喜歡丈夫在她乳房上多下功夫。此外,她喜歡在某種特定的音樂中,用特定的姿勢做愛。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 有一天,她的丈夫說:“我對於你所要求做的那些,並不感到多大刺激和興奮</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">我對每次都如此這般感到厭煩了,希望能做些我喜歡的事。”安娜後來認識到,“相互妥協也是一種做愛的技巧”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當然,沒有口頭的交流,妥協是難以達成的。譬如,有的人喜歡在性生活中說些粗俗的親昵話,但對方並不一定喜歡</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">有的人喜歡在性交中如此這般,對方卻希望如此那般。假如雙方把自己希望怎麼做說出來,就有可能使雙方都得到其所希望的。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 正像莉莎所說的:“假如我沒有把這個提出來,他可能就不會去做,因為他並不知道我希望他這樣做。”幾乎所有受訪的婦女都說,要達成雙方溝通的“性談話”,需要坦誠相告的勇氣,也需要巧妙的表達藝術</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">需要雙方的妥協,更需要雙方的理解</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">可能需要相當長的時間才能達到良好的溝通,得到所希望的結果。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">permanent link : www.cosmopolitan.fr</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-89207429627790923922011-02-07T04:44:00.000-08:002011-02-07T04:44:00.197-08:00做愛關鍵<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"> 做愛是全身感官總動員的激情行為,靈巧的舌頭當然也要加入這場表達愛意的盛宴。舌頭具有溫暖、潮濕、靈活等優點,是非常重要的性器官,不僅可在前戲愛撫時大顯身手,直接與性器官接觸時,所帶來的快感更是不亞於真槍實彈的性器官直接碰觸。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 不過,不可否認的,由於性器官非常接近排泄器官</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">男性精液出口就是尿道口</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,因此許多人對口交存有心理障礙,甚至拒絕口交。但事實上,口交是人類的本能行為,所有的雌性動物在發情期時,生殖器附近都會分泌費洛蒙來吸引雄性接近,並讓雄性用口去接觸雌性的生殖器官,玩樂一陣子,才開始交配。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一般人在口交時多不會使用保險套,提醒你在口交時,要格外注意性病防治。生殖器官若感染梅毒、淋病、皰疹、菜花、非淋菌性尿道炎等性病,都有可能借著口交傳染給性伴侶,因此不宜口交。此外,生殖器若有黴菌、細菌性皮膚感染,或著嘴巴裡頭有傷口時,也應該避免口交。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你快樂就是我快樂</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 取悅是性行為中非常重要的元素。因此,破除口交心理障礙的第一步,就是必須以伴侶的快樂為快樂。至於如何使伴侶樂於口交,只要掌握以下五大原則,相信你一定能得心應手</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一、瞭解伴侶拒絕的原因</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 是覺得骯髒,還是有宗教等其它禁忌,試著開誠佈公地和伴侶討論。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 二、注意床上禮節</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 三、耐心、鼓勵和讚美</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 給伴侶一些時間做好心理調適,當伴侶同意時,記得鼓勵和稱讚對方。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 四、找尋彼此喜歡的姿勢</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 某些口交姿勢與行房不同,讓有意見的一方選擇姿勢。當然雙方也可以好好溝通決定。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 五、參考書籍或錄影帶</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 透過適當的書藉或錄影帶,可以學到許多知識及技巧。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 口交技巧</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 懂得掌握口交技巧,一步一步進攻,會讓雙方的感覺更</span><span lang="EN-US">High</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,也更能融入親密的氣氛中喔</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 先營造氣氛,不要直接開始。可先由肚臍輕輕按摩至陰毛,並愛撫大腿內側。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 找尋最舒服的姿勢</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一般最常使用的姿勢有兩種:一是女性躺在床上,雙腿向外彎曲</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">男性可俯躺或跪坐在女性雙腿之間,刺激陰蒂及陰唇。另一種是男性仰躺,女性跪坐在其雙腿之間,或臉部上方。無論採取那一種姿勢,雙方都應以舒適愉悅為第一選擇。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">運用舌頭的基本動作</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 愛撫、撥弄、舔舐與吸引</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">例如以舌尖輕掃過小陰唇,再以繞圈的方式舔弄陰蒂,順著陰蒂上下撥弄,再吸吮陰蒂兩側。記得使用不同的力道及速度,並視她的反應決定是否要加重或加快。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 不要使用牙齒咬性器官,也不要向陰道吹氣。若不慎咬破很容易造成感染,因為口腔的細菌也很多</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">不要吹氣則是因為,氣泡若進入血管內,很容易造成栓塞。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 君子動口也動手</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 男子可以加上手部動作,例如愛撫身體其它部位或刺激陰道。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 用手碰觸男方的身體,例如用雙手或一手置於男方頭上,可藉此引導對方力道及位置。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 配合動方的動作,移動臀部。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 在對方表現良好時,別忘了給予讚美,並不要吝於表現出快樂的呻吟,如此可提升雙方的熱度。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我和女友對口交相當樂在其中,但有時我會不小心吞下陰道的分泌物,會不會影響健康</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">太迷口交,會不會使女友反而不喜歡生殖器交合的性交</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 正常情況下陰道內的細菌可能還比嘴巴裡的少,但部分性傳染病的病菌或病毒,會存在體液或是分泌物中,陰道分泌物不例外,因此女方若有菜花、淋病、疹,甚至是愛滋病,這些分泌物就有機會成為傳染這些性病的媒介,就算不吞進肚子裡,只在嘴裡就吐掉,還是有機會得病。站在安全性行為的立場,除非保證雙方都只有你這個性伴侶,而且沒有性傳染病,否則還是小心為妙。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 口交和生殖器交合的性交的快感和高潮基本上還是不同的,交互使用反而有變化,如果擔心的話,可以口交和生殖器交合一起做,或者是不要每次做愛時都口交。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 口交技巧好的人,容易在前戲時讓女人倍感興奮</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">不過,如果不確定對方的健康狀況,還是避免口交比較好</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-32710096361805064922011-02-07T04:42:00.000-08:002011-02-07T04:42:00.964-08:00七招,提升性愛品質<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 雖然性生活主要是通過大腦和性器官完成的,但是身體其他器官、系統的健全,對於性生活品質的影響也是不可忽視的。</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">健身</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">與</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">健性</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在所有方面都有著共同的地方,或者說是完全相通、完全一致的。美國保健作家蘇珊</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">古德門列舉的七個步驟,既是健身的要訣,也要改善性生活的要素。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 騎自行車、游泳、快走、健美操鍛煉、在健身器械上跑步等健身運動,都能增強血液循環系統的耐力,同時可使你在性生活中有更耐久的能力。當你做愛時,雖然有較多的血液流向四肢和生殖器官,但不致影響其他部位的供血,腦部仍有充分的血液供應。血液迴圈的改善,也有利於激素的分泌,同時可使女性的陰道潤道更為充分。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 健身運動還能提高</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">性情緒</span><span lang="EN-US">"(themood for sex)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">。美國性治療家林達</span><span lang="EN-US">-</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">德</span><span lang="EN-US">-</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">威勒爾斯博士研究了</span><span lang="EN-US">8000</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">多名</span><span lang="EN-US">18</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">~</span><span lang="EN-US">45</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">歲的婦女,發現她們參與一項健身運動並規律地進行鍛煉之後,</span><span lang="EN-US">40%</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">的人說自己性欲增強了</span><span lang="EN-US">;31%</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">的人說性生活頻度增加了。健身運動會促使身體分泌睾丸酮,這是一使男人和女人性欲增高的激素,運動可使人的左半大腦活動增強,在運動後的</span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">小時內</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">性情緒</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">良好,</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">性趣</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">提高。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、強健四肢</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 四肢不夠強健者,在某一體位進行性交時,常常會感覺到難以支撐下去,不得不早早結束性生活。這說明把四肢練得強健有力,是很有益於性生活的。健身體操、俯臥撐、瑜珈、跑步等,都有助於增強四肢尤其是腿部的力量和耐力。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、增強肢體的柔韌性和靈活性</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 肢體不僅要有力,還要有柔性、彈性,否則性生活時不會感到得心應手,隨心所欲。有時反而會出現腿部僵硬或抽筋、身體要散架似的感覺。柔性和彈性使你能保持一個姿勢相當長時間仍不感到吃力難忍,變換體位時也能平順自如。這樣自然會提高性生活的創造性和增強性高潮的歡快。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、增強骨盆和腰腹肌</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 骨盆的肌肉、腰肌和腹肌,對性行為的進行和性高潮的體驗,都是非常重要的。美國加州的一位瑜珈教師推薦下列運動:站立,兩腳分開,雙膝微屈,吸氣時緩緩地將骨盆輪流向左側和右側盡力旋轉,呼氣時緩緩轉向原位。雙足不要移動,全身重量均衡地由雙足支持。此外,仰臥起坐可以增強腰肌和腹肌,這對於性交時的體位支撐和摩擦運動都是很有益的。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">5</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、鍛煉恥骨尾骨肌</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 兩腿略分開,就像突然中斷排尿那樣收縮會陰、肛門周圍的肌肉,使之保持收緊狀態</span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">鈔鐘,放鬆</span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">鈔鐘,重複</span><span lang="EN-US">30</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">次。收縮肌肉時,應該只涉及骨盆底部和會陰部的恥骨尾骨肌</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">簡稱</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,而不擴展到臀部、腹部和腿部的肌肉,這樣就不會感到疲勞。每天可鍛煉數次。慢慢你就會感到肛門部</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">緊</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">了。婦女在性高潮時,</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌會收縮,因此,鍛煉</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌有助於改善婦女性高潮,也有助於改善男子對射精的控制能力,糾正過快射精現象。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">6</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、學會放鬆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 美國西維爾基尼西的性治療專家、性教育家、諮詢家和治療家協</span><span lang="EN-US">(AASECT)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">主席裘蒂</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">謝弗爾說得好:</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">放鬆使你能領略被撫摸的歡快,並使你無論在身體上還是情緒上都能更好地作出反應,使性生活更完滿。</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">7</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、堅持不懈,持之以恆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 性能力和身體其他功能一樣,用進廢退。《愛與欲的煉丹術》一書的作者特雷沙</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">克蘭肖醫學博士強調指出:</span><span lang="EN-US">"</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">要保持性健康,就必須保持經常有性行為,一有強烈的性欲望,使付之於行動,不一定要有性高潮,不一定要有配偶</span><span lang="EN-US">(‘</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">自慰’亦可</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,也不一定要在臥房床上。隔天一次到一週一次均可,堅持不斷,持之以恆是很重要的。否則,你的激素水準便會變化,而你的’性情緒’與’性趣’也會隨之逸去。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 正像身體鍛煉對性生活的改善大有益處一樣,性生活的良好狀態也是身體健康的絕好的增強劑。近年的科學研究證實:性生活有助於緩解頭痛、經前期綜合征</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">規律地進行性生活,可提高婦女的雌激素水準,有助於防止動脈硬化,保持骨的密度,維持皮膚的潤澤,使陰道處於良好的潤滑狀態</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">性生活可以增加抗體的水準,緩和有害的緊張狀態。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-46481093519078855482011-02-07T03:41:00.000-08:002011-02-07T03:41:00.073-08:00六招新體位<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"> 新鮮體位一:逆向女上位</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 實踐指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 快感指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 女上男下有三大優點:符合地球引力的方向,便於男性省力氣,女性更容易達到高潮</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">採用這種姿勢,你不但可以“掌控全域”,還能保持較深的插入</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">。不過今天要推薦的是“不同尋常”的“逆向女上位”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你該怎麼做</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">他仰臥,雙腿略分開,你爬到他身上,跨坐在他的臀部兩側,背對著他,讓他進入你,身體前傾,使他更加深入。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">這個動作最受誰的歡迎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">想要控制插入深度和衝刺速度的女性。還有那些懶男人們。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作的重要意義</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 鮮明的女權主義色彩。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 新鮮體位二:邊緣後進式</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 實踐指數:☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 快感指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 類似“原始願望”,像動物那樣做愛,聽起來野蠻做起來卻很爽,後進式的名稱多種多樣“小狗式”、“老漢推車”……會有一點點邪惡的感覺,同時給予男性對進入與衝刺的控制權,能使男性更加深入。它更容易刺激到女性的</span><span lang="EN-US">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點,而且男性也更容易接近女性的乳房、臀部和陰蒂,這裡推薦的這一款將比通常的後進式更有邪惡感和激情,當然難度也相對加大。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你該怎麼做</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 嘗試將身體向床上傾斜,雙臀曲起來支撐身體的重量</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">把頭放在枕頭上</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,讓你的男友站立著接近你,將你的雙腿抬起環在他的腰上,然後從後方進入。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作最受誰的歡迎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 有暴力幻想和控制欲強的男性,和追求更多</span><span lang="EN-US">G</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">點刺激的女性。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作的重要意義</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 使性愛更加具有原始的邪惡感。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">新鮮體位三:仰臥式肛交</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 實踐指數:☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 快感指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 括約肌徹底放鬆後會有奇異快感,所以真正試過成功肛交的人往往樂此不疲。如果你們夠親密又對彼此健康狀況夠放心,不妨一試。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你該怎麼做</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 仰臥,臀下墊一個枕頭,可用手向後抬起大腿以加大身體弧度使他更易進入。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 若你們初次嘗試,請先儘量放鬆你的括約肌,記得多塗些潤滑劑,先將一隻手指插入靜止一分鐘後向內推擠,這樣有助於放鬆括約肌,他進入就比較輕鬆。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作最受誰的歡迎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當然是那些說一不二的大男人。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作的重要意義</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 充分說明一個道理:條條大路通羅馬。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 新鮮體位四:桌椅協作式</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 實踐指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 快感指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 別總在床上賴著</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">利用房裡的桌椅來一次美妙性愛吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">若你們成功完成這一次桌椅協作式性愛,一定會使你們的平凡生活更有情趣。餐廳裡有餐桌,書房裡有書桌,廚房裡還有操作臺……桌椅隨處可見,所以,在每個房間都可以完成。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你該怎麼做</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 讓你的男人靠坐在椅上,雙腳舒適地張開,腳板著地。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你跨坐在他胯部中間,背向他,然後雙手伸出觸著桌面借力,雙腳懸於空中。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作最受誰的歡迎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 受夠了傳統姿勢膝蓋疼痛感之苦的男性們,因為這個姿勢使他可舒適地使女性進入高潮,並深入觸及陰道每一寸,進行上下及打圈動作。他甚至可以看著自己的陰莖進入女性身體從而增加自己的快感。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作的重要意義</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">原來傢俱也可以這樣用。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">新鮮體位五:糾纏盤坐式</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 實踐指數:☆☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 快感指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 其實嚴格來說這個姿勢不算特別新鮮,但是卻經常被我們所忽視。其實它的優點很多,能讓雙方同時控制速度,可先緩慢,突然加快或加強插入的深度,然後再放緩來延長達到高潮前的快感。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 而且這樣的位置還能形成一個較易刺激陰核的角度。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你該怎麼做</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 讓你的男人盤膝而坐,你面向他,坐在他中間,雙腿微曲包圍著他的臀部,互相捉緊對方雙臂或背部,並前後運動,接近高潮時加快速度。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作最受誰的歡迎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 所有背部健康的男女都會甘之如飴。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作的重要意義</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 男女平等觀點的最大體現。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 新鮮體位六:難度站立式</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 實踐指數:☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 快感指數:☆☆☆☆</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 在新年的味道裡,站立做愛也應成為你們做愛方式的一個挑戰,由於女性的雙腿交疊,陰道收窄了,從而亦可增加他的快感。如果你們還沒嘗試過站立做愛,那麼,就開始吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">這裡我們給你推薦一種最經典的站立姿勢。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你該怎麼做</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你靠牆站立,分開雙腿,面向你的男人,讓他抬起你的雙腿放於臀後,然後扭動。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作最受誰的歡迎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">喜歡“速戰速決”式性愛的男女,但如果你們兩個身高、體重相差太大,那就不太適用了。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 這個動作的重要意義</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 只要有一面牆,女性就可跟自己的戀人在任何地方進行親密行為。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">permanent link : www.cosmopolitan.fr</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-681202609505358172011-02-07T02:38:00.000-08:002011-02-07T02:38:00.534-08:00性愛共振二十招<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一連串小的挫折讓你渴求著溫暖,此刻你只想投入愛人的懷抱,讓柔情撫慰自己的身心,做愛對於你們來說不僅是生理的欲望,更是心靈的碰撞,你需要性愛爆發出的能量給情緒充電,你通過通過做愛感受到堅若磐石的愛情——它能幫你戰勝一切困難。</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">下面的</span><span lang="EN-US">20</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">種方法不僅能讓做愛更火辣,而且讓愛情更甜蜜。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、佈置好環境</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在開始做愛之前,把你們需要的所有東西放到床的周圍,像避孕套、潤油劑、毛巾、一大瓶解渴的檸檬蜜水。這樣,除了考慮如何享受性愛,就無須多慮了,更不必為找些瑣碎的東西而不得已在興頭上按下“暫停”鍵。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、和他共振愛欲</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">做愛的時候男人總是顯得迫不及待,這時你不妨讓他從盲目的激情中暫時冷卻下來。專家建議你——告訴他你的節奏,他就能很好地配合你,你們將會有更和諧的性愛。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、面對面</span><span lang="EN-US"> “</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">面部是全身最感性的部分,”一名性學專家說:“不要吝惜對他面部的愛撫,用你的手指在對方的鼻子上滑動,還有他的臉頰與嘴唇,這樣他就能感受到你深深的愛意了。”也許你們喜歡搞一些新鮮玩意,但那些看不到對方部的位置其實並不討巧。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">4</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、凝視對方的眼睛</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在做愛的時候你們當然可以閉上雙眼,各自享受性愛。但是,如果你們同時睜開眼睛,凝視對方的眼睛,你們就會發現這是一種共同的經歷。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">5</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、細節的體貼</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">做愛時讓你和他的雙手緊緊相扣,或者撥弄他的眼簾,總之愛撫他平日被忽略的地方。正如性學專家所說:“親密並不意味著只是撫摩他的性器官,你們可以創造出許多獨特的親密方式,比如有的情侶會用睫毛摩擦對方的臉頰,俏皮又甜蜜。”</span><span lang="EN-US"> 6</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、一起冒險</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">探索一些兩人都沒有嘗試過的做愛方式能使你們的感情更親密。在這種探索中,你們對彼此的信任在增長,而且你們可以在做愛技巧上共同成長。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">7</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、交換角色</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">平日裡是不是他總是主動出擊,該交換一下角色了</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">今晚,主動出擊的就是你,讓他乖乖地聽你的擺開車吧。要知道,讓他把自己託付在你的手中,是一次建立莫大信任的過程。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">8</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、消除恐懼</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">忘記那些縈繞在你心頭的過分憂慮吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">例如,我的胸部太小了</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">你可沒有他過去的女朋友的身材好</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">這些煩心事只會大大降低你的性欲,所以對著無謂的念頭高聲喊停吧。性學專家甚至開玩笑說:“當你是臥室裡唯一的裸體女人時,你就是他眼裡最性感的。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">9</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、在床第以外的地方示愛</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在做家務的時候,在超市購物的時候,在一起散步的時候,你都可以出其不意地向他示愛:比如按摩他的臉頰,輕輕掐他的大腿,捏捏他的耳垂……是一種無止境的愛情遊戲。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">10</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、保持接觸</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">嘗試在做愛時始終和他有身體接觸,比如交換位置的時候你們仍然緊貼在一起。這種小小的改變卻可讓性愛變得更動人。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">11</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、吊吊彼此的胃口</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在做愛之前,來一次禁欲。定好規矩,你們只能相互“參觀”,不能親密接觸,這個過程只需要幾分鐘。是的,你感覺到他的溫度和呼吸了嗎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">你會覺得身邊有一種誘人的溫暖,但是因為不能碰觸,所以你很痛苦,但也很受誘惑。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">12</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、獲得感情上的高潮</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">很多人認為性是一件可以拿來計算的事情:我的性高潮有幾回,持續時間有多久……當我們這樣看待性的時候,有些樂趣就自然而然失去了。其實,性快感有時依附著你和他的感情,所以說甜蜜愛情是性愛的關鍵。當你發現自己陷於計算中時,不妨問一下自己,你對他的感覺到底有多親近,你還能做些來促進你們愛情。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">13</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、靜默</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">躺著,或者坐著,只是看著對方,用</span><span lang="EN-US">5</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">分鐘的時間。這時,你們都要嘗試著去感覺而不是思考。專家說:靜默的眼神接觸能使心扉敞開。起初,這看起來有點怪異,甚至在他看來有點傻,但是你必須告訴他,靜默能使你興奮起來。專家說:男人從來不拒絕那些能幫助你們提高性滿意度的行為。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">14</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、調整到最佳時間</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">什麼時候都可以過性生活,但是要找你們都不覺得有壓力的時候。比如他早上急著起床上班,晚上又要趕一份報告,工作似乎擠佔了你們的做愛時間。他下班後是否有片刻的放鬆</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">別說那段時間你要忙著做晚飯,把你們的晚餐交給餐廳吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">出去吃飯之前,做一次是多麼地愜意</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">15</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、表揚你們覺得對方身體最具誘惑力的地方</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">用語言說出對方最性感的每一個地方,比如“我喜歡你嘴唇的輪廊。”描述得越細越好,心理專家說,這給了你們彼此很親近的感覺。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">16</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、注重分離</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">高潮之後,也許會有幾分鐘,你們沉浸在各自的極樂之中。等到兩人都回到清醒狀態,就一同做一次詳盡的複述,共同分享剛才的快樂。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">17</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、事後的甜蜜</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">做愛之後,你們也許還可以為對方做點什麼。你可以用一條溫暖的浴巾幫他擦洗身體,然後輕輕地吻他的臉頰,他會驚喜於你的體貼的。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">18</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、親密有方</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">如果你的他在努力了幾分鐘後就顯出了疲憊,一定讓他歇一會。但是,即使他累了,你也可以讓他抱著你,或用手臂圍著你,他的小小動作,卻可以保護你的激情。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">19</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、不在臥室發牢騷</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">保護你的臥室成為一個沒有牢騷的地方吧。你們可以達成協議,一旦走進臥室,就只能說正面、積極、愉快的事情。凝重的空氣當然會貽誤性情,讓你們感覺不到對方的愛意。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">20</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、不要在歡迎之後幹傻事</span> <span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">你們剛剛享受了有史以來最甜蜜的性愛,你和他的關係那麼親密,你覺得什麼都可以告訴他……沒錯,你覺得他有時很傻,快把你氣瘋了。就讓我們以愛的名義停止這種愚蠢的行為吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">如果你想談那些事情,最好等走出臥室再說吧,不然你的蠢話好像一個重磅炸彈,把你們剛剛建立起來的一切美好炸得粉碎。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-37713556843854960282011-02-07T01:37:00.000-08:002011-02-07T01:37:00.067-08:00情感式高潮?!<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你用什麼詞來描繪你們的性愛呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">靈肉交融”、“合而為一”……</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 那麼,你一定享受過</span><span lang="EN-US"> “</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">情感式高潮”。這是一種完全不同于生理高潮的感覺,就像一陣暖流般,溫暖而強烈的撼動著女人的情感和身體。它讓女人擁有充滿愛意的快感,所帶來的滿足有時候甚至比純粹的陰道痙攣更加充實。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 什麼是“情感式高潮”</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 美國著名的性學專家</span><span lang="EN-US">Shere Hite</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在性學報告中:所謂陰道性交而來的高潮,對有些女性來說,其實都是尚未經歷陰道收縮,也沒有陰蒂或陰道附近的快慰感。但是,她們的確會感覺到有種很強烈的情感式的高峰經驗</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">有時是類似從陰道或喉嚨深處出強烈的擴張感</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,伴隨著很深刻的親密感、渴求或愉悅。我們稱此為“情感式高潮”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一位接受</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌陰道肌電圖監測的受試女性使用她自己的振盪器,在整整</span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">小時內記錄到</span><span lang="EN-US">70</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">多次獨立的高峰,每次包括</span><span lang="EN-US">6-12</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">次</span><span lang="EN-US">PC</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">肌收縮方式。她更表示自己曾在</span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">小時內出現過</span><span lang="EN-US">200</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">多次這樣的高潮:“但從滿足情感需要來說,它們並非十分令人滿意,甚至是微不足道的。”雖然男人無法帶給女人每小時</span><span lang="EN-US">200</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">次高峰的體驗,但他們卻可以完成振盪器不可能完成的任務——讓女人享受一次完美的情感式高潮。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 情感式高潮必殺技</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、如果你努力過度,往往會適得其反。所以,你根本就不需要費心機地做額外努力,放棄腦子裡那些關於性技巧的模式吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在性愛中放鬆心情、專注愛他,情感式高潮會自然而然的發生。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、要想使高潮來得更容易,需要擁抱、親吻,纏綿而甜蜜的前戲,情感性高潮也不例外。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、在他愛撫你的時候,不妨隨著他溫柔的撫摸,開始回憶他對你的種種好處,回憶你們甜蜜的戀愛時刻,會幫助你更加投入到情欲之愛中。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">4</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、一些讓自己更富激情的性幻想也是獲得情感式高潮的能量。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">5</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、不要讓你們除了那個交點之外的身體離得太遠,一些可以互相擁抱的體位對於情感式高潮是很有效的。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">6</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、當你在他上面時會更容易找到讓自己獲得陰蒂高潮的位置,但事實表明,常常發生情感式高潮的體位是傳統的“傳教式”,因為這種方式可以讓女性體會到更多更充實的來自于男人的關愛。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">7</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、在性愛之外的時間,更要時時保持你們愛的激情,如果僅僅是在做愛時才會流露愛意,那麼情感式高潮只能是一個美好的傳說。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">8</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、真正能享受情感式高潮的人,一定能感到他是在真心愛你,同時也一定會感到自己是他注意力的焦點。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">A“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">當他獲得高潮時,我常常會感覺比他更興奮。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我是天秤座女孩,據說這個星座女人的性愛信仰是:“施比受更快樂</span><span lang="EN-US">!”</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">不知道是不是真的,但我常常會在男友獲得高潮時,感覺比他更興奮。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我通常喜歡在他的上面,這樣可以很清楚的看到他在高潮時的表現:“面部緊繃、身體微微的抽搐、眼神在那幾秒中凝固。”每當他開始這樣的過程時,我便感覺自己也達到了高潮,那是一種來自心靈上的高潮,跟隨愛人的滿足而滿足,而且,這種高潮很振奮人心</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">我會更加猛烈的搖擺身體,以期待他的快樂可以持久。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當我們的性習慣彼此熟悉後,我很容易就能預感到他的高潮即將來臨,往往這時候,我的心就開始悸動,情不自禁地會加快做愛的節奏。有好幾次,我更是在這種心靈高潮的驅使上,到達頂峰。那是一種可以讓女人永久回味的感覺。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">B“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">我會在某一刻完全忘記自己的身體,從喉嚨的深處發出一種強烈的擴張感,強度幾乎爆發到臨界點。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 他非常在意我在每一次做愛時會不會出現性高潮,他甚至常常會“委屈”自己,逼迫自己延長性愛的時間來讓我獲得高潮,我很幸運我得到一個在乎我感受的男人。每次性愛結束後,我會誠實的告訴他我身體的感覺,看他分享時候的快樂,我們彼此都很快樂。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 慢慢地,我的高潮描述開始變得不同,我不斷體會到不同味道的性高潮,有時是咸的,有時像針刺,有時還有短暫的幻覺。我開始發掘更多性高潮的樂趣,我發現當自己某天放鬆心境與他聊聊天,然後充滿戀愛情緒去做愛的時候,我就會在某一刻完全忘記了自己的身體,然後從喉嚨的深處發出一種強烈的擴張感,強度幾乎爆發到臨界點。然後,呼吸連接在一起,那是一種情感的全然抒發,一種震懾人心的愛意,只有和彼此瞭解的愛人才會有的感覺。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 性愛就像一出電玩遊戲,需要激情和進攻、需要必需的裝備,當然,更需要行家的秘技和攻略。如何讓自己更輕易地享受情感式高潮呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">參考</span><span lang="EN-US">MISS</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">提供的“情感式高潮”攻略手冊,相信,你也可以玩到更</span><span lang="EN-US">High!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 想擁有讓人愉悅的心之高潮,你需要以下裝備:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、無論你們將戰場選擇在什麼地方,都需要一張能讓你們如墜雲霧的被子和柔軟的床單</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">、玫瑰、薰衣草或者茉莉薰香的催情功效早已經不是秘密,但它們確實能讓你更輕易地陷入情欲之中</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148281025706488935.post-64954760144588371242011-02-06T05:35:00.000-08:002011-02-06T05:35:00.369-08:00小工具增加快感<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 增加快感的性工具有哪些</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 所謂性工具是指能夠幫助男女克服他們的性困難而能像正常人那樣完成性反應的一些器具,但它們不是萬能的,它們只能幫助引起或提高性器官的興奮性。性工具的使用源遠流長,各種文化中都有廣泛應用,如金瓶梅中就介紹了各種性工具,此外在古希臘、古羅馬的繪畫裡也有這類描述。目前臨床上常用的有:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 負壓吸引裝置的形式多樣,越來越精巧,越來越先進,但萬變不離其宗,無非是通過負壓使陰莖達到被動的勃起或腫脹,然後用止血帶固定在陰莖根部以保持陰莖的勃起狀態。但這種勃起往往不是很充分的,所以陰莖多處於懸吊狀況而不是堅挺向上,因此患者可能感到不盡人意。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 最常見的問題是病人覺得不自然或使用困難,如抽負壓時套筒與皮膚貼合不緊、止血帶的取下很困難、射精延遲或不射精及皮膚溫度較低。少數患者可能出現皮下出血、瘀斑和水腫,因此止血帶的使用不得超過</span><span lang="EN-US">30</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">分鐘,負壓也不要抽得太低,否則會影響組織的充分血液供應和出現一些不應有的副作用。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 負壓吸引技術已出現</span><span lang="EN-US">70</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">多年,但它的廣泛應用只是近十幾年的事,國內近幾年生產單位很多,已經到了粗製濫造的地步,令人遺憾。這樣做的結果,一是降低了負壓吸引技術的聲譽,二是給患者帶來不便。如有的廠家只顧賺錢,連說明書都不印或太簡單無法讀懂,結果患者買了不會用</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">還有的大肆宣傳“夫妻快樂”,結果沒病的夫妻也買去,根本沒有必要。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 又如止血帶的生產缺乏科學考慮,結果往往偏小,於是取帶過程的痛苦遠遠超過性交所帶來的短暫的快樂。負壓吸引器在各醫藥商店有售。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 國外的負壓吸引裝置製作精良、設計合理、使用方便,但價格昂貴,最少也要</span><span lang="EN-US">1500</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">元,令人望而生畏。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 保健環系一環形氣囊,注氣後可在陰莖根部產生“緊握”作用,減少陰莖靜脈血液回流,使陰莖海綿體血液充分充盈,促進陰莖繼續勃起。結合按摩作用,可增強勃起程度,延長勃起時間,增強性功能。它適用於勃起不堅,對早洩也有顯著克服作用。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 對陽痿病人有一定幫助。由於假陰道內含振盪器或蠕動裝置,對陰莖有一定按摩、刺激作用,有助於它的功能恢復。現代的假陰道由高級塑膠製成,有手提的、有連在整個塑膠女體的。國外生產的價格昂貴,但製作精良、功能齊全,應該是選擇的物件。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 它的電源是電池或交流電,它多是由小馬達帶運一個凸輪裝置,從而產生頻率為</span><span lang="EN-US">80</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">次</span><span lang="EN-US">/</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">秒的振盪或頻率可以調節的振盪。這種高頻率的刺激容易激起性興奮的不斷增長,並使不射精的患者很快突破高潮閾值使高潮障礙得到克服。跳蛋有男用、女用之分,男用的一般設計成采精器的形態,女用的設計成仿陰莖形態,還有通用型。但不要忘記儀器畢竟是儀器,它們代替不了人的感情投入和切實的感覺,所以不能完全依賴於工具。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 對男人來說,性愛本質上是一種釋放雄性激素的過程,他們對性的滿足與高潮壓力的釋放相互聯繫。因此,一旦男人興奮起來,便不由自主地加快了腳步。更有甚者,還希望女人和他一起加速。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我們可能都知道,男人喜歡</span><span lang="EN-US"> “ </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">直中要害</span><span lang="EN-US"> ” </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,女人喜歡</span><span lang="EN-US"> “ </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">逐漸升溫</span><span lang="EN-US"> ” ;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">男人性愛後</span><span lang="EN-US"> “ </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">倒頭就睡</span><span lang="EN-US"> ” </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">,女人卻非要再來點</span><span lang="EN-US"> “ </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">甜點</span><span lang="EN-US"> ” </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">。性愛,哪能那麼容易就水乳交融了</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">那麼,愛究竟該怎麼做,才能讓雙方同時滿足</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">美國情感問題專家指出了以下幾個要點。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"></span></div><a name='more'></a><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 恰恰相反的是,不管從生理還是情感上,女人都更喜歡動作溫柔的男性。她們希望男人充滿柔情蜜意,慢慢地勾起自己的性欲,就像層層剝落的花瓣一樣</span><span lang="EN-US">;</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">她們希望男人發現自己靈魂深處的秘密,感受自己的欲望。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 因此,只要男人適當減慢速度,稍微控制一下自己,動作稍微溫柔一點,就會給女人帶來更大快感,甚至達到高潮。同時,自身也可以體驗到對方的依戀和性感,並與之共振。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 但這裡有一個有趣的現象,當男人性欲被激起時,他們對時間判斷的誤差很大。比如當一個男人認為前戲已經足足上演了</span><span lang="EN-US"> 15 </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">分鐘時,實際上可能才過了一兩分鐘而已。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 當然,性愛規律是伴侶之間慢慢摸索出來的,不能拿一些條條框框生搬硬套。想要令雙方都享受到真正的魚水之歡,主要靠雙方在交流和實踐中的體會。但毋庸置疑,適當增加前戲時間,事後仍要細品</span><span lang="EN-US"> “ </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">溫存</span><span lang="EN-US"> ” </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">這道甜點,是讓雙方共同達到高潮的基礎。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 你知道我最懷念《慾望城市》中的什麼嗎</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">我懷念的既不是</span><span lang="EN-US">Carrie</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">的限量版</span><span lang="EN-US">Manolos</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">高跟鞋,也不是</span><span lang="EN-US">Smantha</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">和她的那群男人。我懷念咖啡店裡的一見鍾情,我懷念這四個女人是如何在床第間滿足自己的浪漫情欲。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 午夜醒來,半醒半夢的性愛</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 在你迷迷糊糊,情欲欲罷還休時候的性愛所帶來的刺激,是清醒時的三倍,它會讓你覺得如臨仙境。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 給你性愛加點……“料”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 雖然大多數人只是在電影裡見過,你還是應該嘗試一下在身上塗滿巧克力或者奶油的性愛,那種略帶零亂的感覺反而會讓你更興奮。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 先說“我愛你”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 在他對你“下手”之前,先對他說“我愛你”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在最脆弱的一刻讓他看到你</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一起去醫院看病。這也許聽起來不怎麼浪漫,但是不如試一次。在醫院你會感覺到自己的人性,並且會比性愛更加坦白,讓他明白這點,會讓你受益匪淺。例如我的那位第一次做乳房</span><span lang="EN-US">X</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">線照片的朋友說:“他和我一起分享了那種緊張的感覺,那是一種如此根深蒂固的,積極的愛的表達。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 與一個不是你男朋友的男人調情</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 注意</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">僅僅是“調情”而已</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">當你已經陷入嚴肅的關係時,你需要新鮮血液的感覺,但是你卻不能“大換血”,最佳的解決方案就是:調情。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 一定要掌握尺度,不可逾越雷池</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">適當的出格所帶來的激情,反而會給你和男友的感情“添不少油,加不少醋”。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 約會一個女性化的男人</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我們指的並不是</span><span lang="EN-US"> 0</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"> 我的一個朋友說:“和一個一塵不染的男人出去,會讓你覺得性感無比,讓你更加自信,並且感到自己也光彩照人,特別有女人味兒。”</span><br />
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